A 24 hour date...

...to the Wild Horse Pass Resort & Spa - without kids. As Matt called it, it was a 'stay-cation.'

The view from our room on the 4th floor.

The first thing we did was head to the pool. It was about 112 degrees and humid...but that didn't stop us from having a great time.


Matt noticed some kids throwing the football around...he couldn't help it. He joined in, and it was fun for him because they were all boys.






We stayed pool side for at least 4 hours...ahhh, relaxing. Then we got dressed for a late dinner.


We had dinner at Ling & Louie's, an Asian Bistro which I though was really good. After that we headed back for one more dip in the pool...at night. Actually I just watched Matt, I'll admit I was really tired, and I'm not used to staying up late. I don't know how people do it.



The next day...
Ahhhhh, a nice fresh brewed cup of starbucks coffee to start the day.





The resort has some interesting paintings and decorations...


We had a very nice breakfast at Kosin in the resort. I'll admit it, I had some smoked apple pancakes (carbs) which I haven't had in so long, but it was so tasty! It was nice to be able to sit and talk without kids interrupting every few minutes. Then we headed out to the pool one last time before checking out.

Matt at the top of the slide.






We sure had a great 24 hour date. Thanks to my mom for watching the girls. It was a much needed time to relax and renew, and get burnt playing in the pool.

Mia's 59th blood transfusion


Sisters are awesome, especially when they come to the hospital with you and it's summer time, when they could have chosen to totally sleep in. After the usual starbucks, we made it to the hospital just after 7:00 am. What an eventful day.

# 59


Meet Miss Amanda ~


Um, can I have Miss Amanda's job? I'm sure Alyssa will when she gets older. Miss Amanda is a child life specialist, it's her job to help make kids feel comfortable and offer 'distractions' when they are at the hospital all day or heading into surgeries. She was a former art teacher before she came to Cardon Children's...oh Alyssa, I am SO glad you came today. I can just see her doing this and helping kids feel better.



They crafted up some cool stuff using Starch, paint, and paper...making homemade cards.


Then it was time for some games...this one is called flying



Thanks Miss Amanda, you made the day go by faster and it was definitely more fun. Plus, you have a mini you (Alyssa) in the making.

The music stories ~


WHERE is the video camera when you need it?! Dr. 'Happenin' came by for a quick visit, he is always so funny, but combine that with a music story...and it's hilarious! Miss Becky, and her new assistant came by for music therapy. They had to tell a story to the music they made using instruments...










It ended with Dr. Happenin playing a song...too funny. We ended the afternoon with a trip to the frozen yogurt machine in the cafeteria. Yum.

Celebrating more than the 4th..


Independance day was happily celebrated in Tucson with Matt's dad Dennis getting out of the hospital. We packed up the house and headed down the 3rd where he was already waiting for us at home. The diagnosis: Non Hodgkins Lymphoma - he's had his first round of chemo already.

This proved to be the perfect opportunity for me to 'practice' my nursing skills...since SOMEDAY I would love to become a nurse. I kept thinking, hmmmmm...what would Miss Christine do? (Mia's nurse.)

I'm hoping next time the patient will look more enthused... :)

A golf cart ride around the block...Ashley, watch out for the parked...car.

The girls love Grandma and Grandpa's hot tub...

Relaxing outside...

Grandpa & Mia talking about hospitals, and what they like and don't like, they also talked about where they like pokes and IV's. It's something you can talk about when you know exactly what the other person has been through.

Maddy had a really good nap...especially after all the swimming.

4th of July DINNER
Matt giving the Freedom Speech...

The 3 Freedom's we celebrated:
1. America's birthday...we live in a FREE country!
2. Freedom that God has given us in His Son Jesus
3. Dennis' Freedom from the hospital...yay!!!
Celebrating together as a family...

Family Portraits ~

Wishing you the best!
The Neighbor's

Dennis & Pam's neighbor's had a 4th of July party...so Matt and I accompanied them for a little while a few houses up the road, yes...the wanna be nurse tagged along too. (That's me!) It was great for Dennis to get out and see some of his friends, and I know Pam appreciated it as well. Dennis took the liberty of showing everyone his port...and I thought it was a kodak moment. Thankfully someone had a camera, so I borrowed it...all for the blogs sake!

Can I just say, what a GREAT group of neighbors Pam & Dennis have?! They are so much fun to talk to, and they know how to have a good time, but most importantly, they are there to help out eachother is anyone needs help. That's exactly what neighbors are for. Thanks everyone for being so kind to my in-laws! We tagged along with most of them to watch fireworks...

Fireworks!
Matt got a few little poppers for the kids to throw on the ground, and a few snakes.
Grandpa liked to watch the kids play...then it was time for a drive.
Here we all are in the car, yep...eight McPoland's 4X4'ing through the desert on a mountain on 4th of July...we told the girls you can't wear flip flops because of rattle snakes and bugs...
...they were a little scared but when we got to the look out they were excited.


They sat in the back of someone's truck to watch the fireworks.
We waited for the fireworks to start...
I was so happy to see Dennis & Pam having a good time with their friends, and I'm so thankful that Dennis got to be a part of it. We truly had a great 4th of July...usually we stay home because it's so hot here. I'm glad that we made some special memories this 4th of July.

Sneaking M & M's...


This picture was taken of us McPoland's on May 25th...the day before Pam & Dennis left to drive up to Seattle. They drove taking the long way, through Taos, New Mexico and then on through Utah straight to Seattle arriving around June 2nd so Dennis could be there for his 50th high school reunion in West Seattle. Dennis was so excited, the week after his reunion on the 19th of June, his grandson Brandon played basketball in West Seattle which absolutely made his day.
- Dennis and all of his family noticed his right leg was swelling...so after basketball game # 1 a trip to the Bellevue ER told them that he had a mass. (6/19)
-June 23rd Pam & Dennis flew back to Arizona and went again to the ER. Dennis has been there ever since.

Pam & girls celebrating Grandma's birthday... a much needed time to be with family during such a trial.
The girls made/wrote a very special book of some Grandma memories...

Yeah, sometimes it's refreshing looking into the eyes of your grandkids, even if they have chocolate all over their mouth. I can only imagine how precious they must be to grandparents.

The older girls wanted to hear Grandma read what they wrote about their memories...

Our trip to see Dennis

This is Dennis heading out for his MRI. Um, excuse me, can you take our picture? Thanks. Matt and I waited for an hour while Dennis was in the MRI...his hip where the mass is really hurt from not being able to move for that hour. But he was ok after that, and was in great spirits. When we first got to the hospital, I waited outside with Max, our dog. The girls and Matt went straight up to see Grandpa, the first thing Ashley did was burst into tears, which of course would make anyone a little teary eyed. Alyssa was fine with everything, but she wanted Grandpa to see the cards she had made. Mia (I'm sure) looked to see if Dennis' leg was still attached, somehow she got the idea that they were cutting Grandpa's leg off. (Um, ok. No, they are not.) Madison just watched what was going on...not really sure what to make of the whole thing. I think Matt was a little emotional, to see his dad laying in a hospital bed...because Dennis has never been in the hospital before, ever.
Saturday June 26th ~

Saturday morning Matt and I went to the hospital by ourselves, letting Pam have a day off to be with her grandgirls. We came with surprises...like the one Grandpa is opening from Ashley. Yeah, we snuck in some M & M's...although his favorite is peanut M & M's. 'Can you bring in the BIG bag of peanut M & M's?' Dennis asks. 'No!' Matt says, 'that's not healthy.' (ha! ha!) Don't worry Dennis, I'll see what I can do!
The latest as of June 26th 7:10 pm is:
-We have to wait until Monday for all the doctor's to get together, and for them to do the biopsy of the mass, which is located in the hip area. The swelling of his leg is caused by this mass, which is near a vein/blood vessels which also has a blood clot.
-He also has 2 blood clots, 1 small clot in the lung, and 1 in the leg, so they are giving him meds to thin the blood.
-They can't do the biopsy until they figure out the blood clots...so it's a bit of a waiting game.
- Dennis hasn't walked since he got off the plane. They don't want the blood clots to dislodge.
Dennis is in good spirits. Of course, it's always nice to be held up in prayer. We would greatly apprecaite your prayers for Dennis and for his family. He knows and is fully aware that God is in control of the whole situation. Praise the Lord for peace and comfort that can only come from God himself.
'Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.' ~ 1 Peter 5:7

Celebrating another birthday


We celebrated my mom's birthday with dinner at Brio, one of our favorite places to do lunch when we go shopping to Macy's at San Tan Village. It's a wonderful place for Italian food.







Surprisingly the girls did a nice job of being ladies for the dinner...


...even Madison was good and sat in her chair, most of the time.


My mom opening her card.


Can you see it on her face, she's thinking 'no you didn't'...and on my face, 'oh yes I did!'




After dinner we came back to the McPoland house and had birthday cake...yummy! The girls loved the cake, and it was fun being able to celebrate my mom.